Wednesday 23 January 2013

Expectations

I was told this was an important subject that should be addressed in a blog and since it was brought up while someone was reading my blog, I guess that means I needed to write it.  So here I am on a Sunday afternoon and instead of reading a book that is calling out to me, I am writing a blog on expectations and responsibilities. I know there will be some authors and readers out there that will want to hunt me down and beat my ass about this blog, so let me start pissing them off right now.

I feel that both the author and the reader have a certain responsibility in their relationship. I am not talking about ass kissing the author or commenting on each review or post that a reader makes. A reader/author relationship is a strange thing. Sometimes it is fan worship. Other times it is a support group. Each person has their own job in the relationship, and we forget it once in a while. This blog is a reminder to both parties what their job is. No, I am not Dr.Phil and yes, this is my personal opinion on it. You can stop reading here or continue and see what gobblygook I am spouting on about.

Readers like to gush about a book and how much they love the author and that is great. But the big question is—Is it really true? I am going to admit I am guilty of this occasionally. Sometimes the book is not fantastic. It is good but not great. I can remember parts of it but not all of it. I read a lot and that means it takes a lot to get me to remember a book. I have a horrible memory, but there are some books that just never leave my melon.

Now we come to the responsibility of the reader. An author does not know if they are reaching a reader, if everyone just says that the book is awesome. Sometimes you need to reach out to the author in a PRIVATE place, not on their Facebook wall but in a message. Send them an email. There are a lot of ways to contact authors. Be honest, but remember that this book is their baby. Treat them with the respect that you would want someone to treat you with. Don’t try and tell them how to write their books. Tell them what you liked or didn’t like about the book. Be specific. They will not be able to fix the book you are talking about, but it may give them something to think about when they sit down to write the next book. They can’t fix what they don’t know is broken. I can tell you as a beta reader that you can’t catch everything. Sometimes it takes a fresh set of eyes to see something.

This is not the only responsibility that a reader has to an author. I will admit I am guilty of this one too. Patience. I hate this word, but I know that I have to learn to deal with the fact that an author can’t just pop a book out every other day. Writing is a long process. Sometimes with new authors it doesn’t seem that way. You want to know why? It is because a few of them have slaved over a book for years. Then they put it away and write a few more. Then they pull out that first one and say, “Today I am going to submit this book.” Then if they are lucky, it gets accepted. Now the fun begins. There is a process that takes time from when the book gets accepted to the time it is available for purchase. We are not talking days. We are talking months. In the meantime, they have sent in all the other books they have written. So from the time the first book is published till their next book is available may be just a month apart, but it was written sometimes years apart.

For most authors it takes several months to write a book. From the time they type the end till it gets published is even a few more months. I know we wish that we could read books one right after another, but that is not possible. You have to give the author time to not just conceive the plot and characters but to write the book. Then there is the process of getting it published. Most authors want to give us the books we are asking for, but they need the support of their fans to give them the time to write the books. Oh we can ask them about the books and sometimes, they will be able to give us hints, but we have to remember what a long process writing actually is. So suck it up, Buttercup and stop hounding the authors.

Now to what I feel is the author’s responsibilities. We, as your readers, should expect to get the best book you can write. If you are an author and expect us to give you our money then we should get quality books. I know that every book is not going to be awesome, but I expect a well written book.

I am a character reader. I like the characters that could be my neighbor (if he was hot and rich). I want to be able to remember them after I have closed the book. I want a story that makes me laugh, cry, or get angry. Your job as an author is to make me care about the characters and what they are going through. 

Are you going to hit it out of the park everytime you are releasing a book, probably not. But if you put your heart into it then I will respect that sometimes a book just doesn’t gel. Most authors I know want to put out the best book they can, but so many things go into it. They have families that also need attention. Maybe their muse has become a bitch and won’t talk to them. It could be anything that can make a great idea go a bit off center. 

Now here is where I am really going to piss some off. I have found several authors that are just pumping out books. I have read a lot of them. I still like the books, but they don’t resonate with me. I can’t remember the characters or, hell, even the plot lines. Sometimes it is because there is no plot and the characters are one dimensional, at best.

As money gets tighter, I have found that I would rather buy quality over quantity. I have stopped buying a lot of these authors. These books are good for a quick read but not for much else. If I gave one of these books to a friend then chances are it would not make a fan out of them. 

Now don’t get me wrong. There are some authors out there that can totally write a book in a week. These authors are few and far between. If they do self-publishing, they can get the books out to the readers much faster because there are fewer hoops to jump through.

I don’t expect the moon and stars but sometimes we are lucky and get both from an author. This is because they put their heart and soul into the book and we as readers are doing our part in giving them feedback and supporting them when they are writing.

So are you holding up your part of the relationship?
 
Sinfully sarcastic,
Shmuttmeister

26 comments:

  1. Great blog Tina.....it does give a lot of great points....as a reader I know I am guilty of not having patience sometimes but for me it is the excitement of waiting for that next book....because the first books have drawn me in.....but since talking in this group and in chat with the authors I have a better understanding on how things work and they just can't spit the books out at whim.....so I have learned to be patient because I know they are writing the best book they can and I as a reader appreciate that....I have to say when I mention a book or do a review I am as honest as I can be because I believe feedback good or bad is crucial .....but if I say I loved the book I for one mean it.....I tend to be drawn to certain types of books that I know I like and I tend to stay with them......but in saying that I value everyone in the group giving details about books and there feedback because of that I have found a lot of different authors I didn't know about.....thank you Tina for this blog it does really open your eyes to both sides....

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    1. Thank you Lisa. I am glad that it has reached at least one person. Since I have been talking to authors I have learned so much about the process of getting a book published.

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  2. Tina thank you for writing this blog. I have to confess that I am an impatient Buttercup. I love some Authors and cant seem to get enough. Some days tho I seem to be in Readers quick sand the story just bogs me down and i want to get the hell out of there. I love Reading it is my passion. I value the chance to talk to Authors on chat and fellow readers too.

    Once again another kick ass Blog.

    Cheers Cherie

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    1. Thanks Cherie. I think all of us qualify as impatient Buttercups.

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  3. I AM an author, and I'm guilty of being an impatient Buttercup! I have fav authors of my own, that I anxiously await their new releases, and find myself asking them more than once when it is coming. As an author I also think that I have a responsibility to the readers to be honest and respectful when they provide constructive criticsm. I have to admit that if I could rewrite some parts of the first book I published now, it would turn into a very different book. I'm learning and growing in my writing daily, so my readers have to know that the book you are reading was probably written a year ago, or four years ago, and the person writing book 4 or 5 in the series isn't the same person anymore. It's definitely a two way street. Authors count on readers, and readers count on Authors. (I'll resist singing Kum bye ya, but just this once.) Great post Schmuttmeister!

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    1. Thank you Lori. I actually had to use my brain when I wrote this one, well at least a small part of it anyway.

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    2. I thought I smelled smoke. Don't burn that brain up, Schmuttmeister! This blog won't keep itself going! :P

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  4. Patience??? I have to have PATIENCE??? I cant HOUND?? What the hell? Well PPPFFFFFTTTTT.. Ok sucking it up..(in front of the almighty Shmutthead..)
    <3
    Chris NoOne

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    1. I know you are trying something new but it will be okay I promise.

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  5. Shmuttmeister, I think you you said it very well. All relationships are a two-way street, and the author/reader one is no different. So thank you for standing on the pulpit and saying this. I'm very proud of you. :P

    Love,
    -Mia

    p.s. I'm an impatient Buttercup when it comes to my favorite authors. It's a weakness. ;)

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    1. I am glad to see that authors are just as impatient as the rest of us

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  6. I'm a total impatient buttercup. Seriously...I hate waiting. I also have sent some nice but serious emails but they are usually with more good then bad points, since sometimes it's just because I didn't understand what an author was trying to portray and needed some clarification. Thankfully every one has been met with niceness, or at least to my face. :P I definitely try and hound less these days. But FB makes it so easy. ;)

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    1. That is the hard part for me too. I don't read excerpts and things like that because it does make me want to hound them for the book.

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    2. I can't help but read the excerpts. I must be a masochist.

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    3. I have always known that about you Sheri

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  7. Mistress Shmuttmeister, you have some very valid points. I'm as guilty as anyone about being impatient for new books to come out. However I try not to be obnoxious about it and if I have ever come acress that way, I sincerely apologize to my favorite authors, *Cough* Tymber, Sophie, Heather, Cherise... Ok, I'll stop now.

    I have at times had questions about a book and have reached out to authors. So far, I have had nothing but positive responses from any authors I have contacted. Any author can have a book that doesn't resonate for me for one reason or another. When asked my opinion on a book I didn't particularly enjoy, I usually just say for them to read it for themselves and make their own judgements. Since I'm extremely horrible about writing reviews, I generally avoid doing them. Not that I don't want to encourage the author to write more but I don't want someone else to make an evaluation on a good book due to my lousy writing skills.

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    1. I feel your pain RoseRaven, I don't write reviews for that reason either. It is good that you reach out to authors and give them feedback. It is how we all learn to be better.

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  8. Excellent blog T. The topic has made me think about the authors I interact with on Facebook

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    1. Thanks Lunatic. I now feel like I did a good job since I have your praise ;)

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  9. EXCELLENT blog. I admit I am an impatient buttercup too. BUT, since I like to read several different authors that keeps me busy. I agree, the relationship IS a two way street. I have read some series of books where I loved the first ones o much I just went and bought the next 5 or so in the series only to find the stories were basically all the same with the names changed. I never thought to send a message to the author because I would hate so much to hurt someone's feelings who has put so much time and effort into their work. YES I am one of those people who will do all I can to avoid hurting someone. It took some chops to write this blog and voice what most probably think but don't say. I admire you for that. I am now going to take a sedative to bring on my patience LOL.

    GOOD JOB!!!!!!!!

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    1. Thanks Linda. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but sometimes it takes some tough love to help an author grow from a good author to a great author.

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  10. Ok, if I dont like the book, I dont say ANYTHING at all(except to my Alpha bitch Lori King) Because I may not like it, someone else might... And I dont want to ruin someone elses enjoyment of what I feel is crap to me. Its not about hurting the authors feelings(although I would hate to do that, if its seriously crap I do hope someone said something...it just wont be me saying it like that) I would rather tell the author directly, not put it in a review, because I honestly love reading authors with happy facebook postings of their awesome reviews...But hell, if its crap its crap. I can say with all honestly there is only one author so far that I REALLLY did not like at all. The book reads like one of my awful random postings like this......Ok shutting up now

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  11. I am glad to read that you do not put up bad reviews. Like you said it just may not be your cup of tea. Yes, you do like to ramble too.

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